spirituality-ethics

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:00:50.000140Z

there’s this documentary:

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:00:52.000141Z

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jg4OCeSTL08

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:01:36.000143Z

@bg got me into the whole dune universe

bg 2016-06-24T11:02:12.000144Z

😋 👍:skin-tone-5:

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:02:13.000145Z

my computer is called arrakas

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:05:11.000146Z

and if I get a fish… I’ll call it leto

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:05:30.000147Z

if the fish was male

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:06:45.000148Z

> I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:06:52.000149Z

i love, love, love this

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:06:59.000150Z

😃

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:07:04.000151Z

amazing stuff

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:07:20.000152Z

https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/3634639-dune

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:07:39.000154Z

there’s so much knowledge in those books

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:07:51.000155Z

big time

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:07:57.000156Z

“The mind commands the body and it obeys. The mind orders itself and meets resistance.”

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:11:07.000157Z

i've been doing a lot of reading on brain / mind topics

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:11:12.000158Z

bg talked about the 3 types of sci-fi - technology as the prime focus (star trek), adventure as the prime focus (star wars) and society/politics (dune)

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:11:45.000159Z

the best type being dune

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:12:03.000160Z

because it’s timeless

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:12:21.000161Z

basically these, plus a couple more http://www.insidequest.com/toms-reading-list/

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:12:28.000163Z

because even though there is technology, it’s not the main focus

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:12:44.000164Z

oooh

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:13:12.000165Z

which one do you recommend/

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:13:22.000166Z

the top one is the fundamental one

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:13:23.000167Z

mindset

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:13:37.000168Z

I’m reading this myself:

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:14:06.000171Z

cool

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:14:30.000172Z

fixed vs growth mindset. once you discover your fixed mindsets and work on adopting growth mindsets instead, then you open to relentless learning and being willing to work hard on the things you want

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:14:40.000173Z

there’s some really nice ones on that list

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:15:22.000174Z

I’ve read 12 and 13

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:16:08.000175Z

"the talent code" is great because you learn why you can't avoid deliberate, deep practice to build a skill

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:16:10.000176Z

basically, myelin 🙂

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:16:41.000177Z

it's a fantastic list. Tom's basic idea is that innovation and creativity comes from combining existing ideas. so ideas in, new ideas out

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:16:56.000178Z

hahaha… I need a book that says… take this pill to learn a new language

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:16:56.000179Z

hence the extreme learning focus -- read a LOT

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:17:04.000180Z

-grin-

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:17:50.000181Z

just googled myelin

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:18:15.000183Z

but yes

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:19:32.000185Z

I find that we really need to know what drives us

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:19:58.000186Z

myelin is what actually builds a skill, by wrapping neural circuits as you repeatedly trigger them. more layers = faster, stronger signals on those circuits

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:20:18.000187Z

cool

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:20:20.000188Z

you trigger them by doing the thing, but at the limit of your capability

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:20:58.000189Z

it's fascinating. i agree, we definitely need to know. the reason why mindset is at the top of list, is because it's vital to know and believe that you can change what drives you

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:21:05.000190Z

I find that the thing that gets me down is fatigue

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:21:08.000191Z

it's a decision

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:21:47.000192Z

so how do we make the right decisions/

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:21:49.000193Z

?

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:22:12.000194Z

that leads to the second most important thing: having a goal

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:22:44.000195Z

@robert-stuttaford: what was the first important thing?

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:22:52.000196Z

because then the primary guidance for decision making can be "is this moving me towards my goals, or away from them?"

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:23:10.000197Z

having a "growth" mindset, rather than a "fixed" mindset

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:23:37.000198Z

@robert-stuttaford: how do you know if your goal is good and how long should you stick to the goal?

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:23:49.000199Z

if you believe you can grow the skills you need, and know what you want to use those skills for, what remains is energy and attention management

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:23:57.000200Z

that's a fantastic question 🙂

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:24:16.000201Z

@robert-stuttaford: the question is born from experience 😉

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:25:11.000202Z

there's a great book for that question -- so good they can't ignore you, by cal newport

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:25:47.000203Z

i should caveat everything i'm saying here; i'm trying all of this on, i don't know if it's right 🙂

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:25:54.000204Z

the usual disclaimer, heh

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:26:22.000205Z

@robert-stuttaford: I had one goal for 2015 and got a lot of motivation from it. Then changed my goal in 2016 to a different topic, but it didn't work out. Returning to the 2015 goal.

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:26:52.000206Z

@robert-stuttaford: I think you have to feel intuitively or from a flow of energy of the goal is really still valid, or something

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:27:24.000207Z

@robert-stuttaford: there is probably no recipe for it, but trying too hard can be a trap also. Things have to work out at the right moment, with your cooperation.

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:27:36.000208Z

yes, all great points

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:28:11.000209Z

it all gets very zen at some point, because the answer, ultimately, is whatever you end up doing 🙂

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:28:44.000210Z

I'm writing down the title of that book, but the list is getting big 🙂

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:29:18.000211Z

-grin-

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:29:29.000212Z

there is no reading list, there is only reading hash-tag-zen

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:29:43.000214Z

😃

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:29:56.000215Z

I like this channel

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robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:30:08.000216Z

hehe

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:31:20.000217Z

Eckhart Tolle said: if you have to choose between your head or your body (when something is not clear) choose for the body.

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:31:46.000218Z

I think in retrospective I could have made better choices when I would have applied that.

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:31:50.000219Z

it’s a good refuge from `(->> (update-in blah [:key] do-stuff) (reduce-kv some-function list-of-things))`

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:33:10.000221Z

yeah, michael, this is what i like about mindfulness practice; you get back into your body

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:33:21.000222Z

so many years i've treated my body as a way to move my head around

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:35:01.000223Z

TIL about reduce-kv

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:36:39.000224Z

I think I used that function exactly once in some project.

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:39:44.000225Z

it’s useful… but now I’m sorry I brought it up 😂

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:40:20.000226Z

@robert-stuttaford: is mindfulness a buddhist thing?

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:40:51.000227Z

@zcaudate: mindfulness is something that can be found in all religions, it's just a practice

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:40:55.000228Z

it's a core part of their teaching, yeah, but i don't think they can claim ownership

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:41:37.000229Z

@zcaudate: for example The Order of Saint Benedict is very much mindful

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:43:09.000230Z

buddhism directly relates mindfulness to a broader mental model for learning to befriend yourself

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:43:18.000231Z

I always wonder what people think about when they are being mindful

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:44:02.000232Z

it's not a thinking, it's an observing

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:44:13.000233Z

for me these days, I start to nod off and fall asleep when I meditate and then I start dreaming

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:44:17.000234Z

@zcaudate: I think it means doing one thing well, like a good unix command line tool or clojure function 😉

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:44:23.000235Z

being the space for a phenomenon while being aware that you are being the space for the phenomenon

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:45:06.000236Z

so it’s an action

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:45:20.000237Z

or the act of observing the action

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:45:50.000238Z

there's a book (i say this a lot 🙂 ) - http://www.shambhala.com/how-to-train-a-wild-elephant.html - which is great for tackling this idea of mindfulness being something you have to 'do'

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:46:10.000240Z

it's more of a quality of mind while you do whatever it is you would usually do

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:46:25.000241Z

doing so with awareness and intention and -- if possible, non-judgment

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:46:49.000242Z

this book has lots of nice little practices, such as using your non-dominant hand, to force your attention into the present moment

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:47:03.000243Z

see for me, I feel that awareness is just the feedback loop

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:47:32.000244Z

I feel that integrity is what we should be working towards

robert-stuttaford 2016-06-24T11:47:38.000245Z

brb work meeting 🙂

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:47:42.000246Z

and awareness helps that

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:47:46.000247Z

My colleague just started sitting in meditation posture on his office chair... don't know if he is aware of this conversation 😉

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:48:31.000248Z

but being aware purely for the sake of it… I tend to see it has being a little selfish

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:49:02.000249Z

@zcaudate: doing/being more mindful benefits all beings

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:49:41.000250Z

I believe that mindfulness can be used to achieve harmony

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:50:00.000251Z

but the goal is harmony

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:50:18.000252Z

just do it for the sake of doing it, the benefits will follow

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:51:16.000253Z

it’s a hard sell though

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:51:28.000254Z

most people these days are like… show me the money

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:52:33.000255Z

more money, more responsibility 😉

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:52:53.000256Z

yeah

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:52:58.000257Z

tell me about it

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:55:02.000258Z

I would like to think that I’m more mature because I practised this and that

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:55:30.000259Z

but I’m finding that age automagically solves a lot of the problems of youth

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:56:10.000260Z

for no reason at all

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:56:13.000261Z

well, becoming older means you have practiced life a lot more 😉

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:56:43.000262Z

maybe it’s because we don’t give a fuck as much as we did as we were younger

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:57:12.000263Z

but I’m really enjoying getting older

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:57:35.000264Z

well, sometimes I wish I wouldn't give a fuck like I did when I was younger

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:57:57.000266Z

but I'm glad it's working out for you 🙂

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:58:26.000267Z

hahaha

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:58:33.000268Z

same same 😃

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:59:07.000269Z

anyways… back to work...

zcaudate 2016-06-24T11:59:25.000270Z

thanks for the conversation

borkdude 2016-06-24T11:59:31.000271Z

likewise